Things a Single Person Needs to do Before Getting Married

  • Travel. Traveling is one of the things you can give to yourself as a reward. It is a wonderful feeling to witness and experience God’s awesome creations like the different land and water formations. You can even witness and communicate with other people from different culture and traits. Traveling is more awesome when you are with your favorite people.
  • Learn Cooking. Of course, you should learn how to cook before getting married. Either you are a man or a woman; you should know how to prepare meals. Learn the basics and much better if you know something that will make someone appreciate your cooking skills more.
  • Be Financially Stable. You need to be financially stable before making your own family. You should be independent and capable financially so that you will not ask help from your parents because they have their own expenses too.
  • Face Your Big Fear. God will always want you to be fearless and courageous. Before settling down, you should be a conqueror in dealing with small things that you are afraid of doing of. If you are afraid of heights, try zip lining or mountain climbing. Achieving one of these things is such a good moment to embrace.
  • Live Alone. Experiencing to live alone does not mean you hate everyone around you. It means that you want to experience of being independent because you are in the right age to do that. You can just experience that six months to a year. It is also the right time to soak in God’s presence and be more dependent to God.
  • Finish a Degree. It is much better if you finish your degree. Everyone wants that but not everyone can accomplish that. Achieve that before getting married. Your future children will soon appreciate the importance of education especially if they see that in you.
  • Do the First Move. This is not only means that you do the first move to get in touch with someone. This means that you need to learn how to initiate especially if you already know what to do in a certain situation. This shows that you are maturing.
  • Challenge Yourself. Aside from facing your fear, challenge yourself to do things that you have not yet experienced. Talking about initiative, you should also make the first move to achieve things that will make you a stronger person but will always be in line with God’s will and guidance.
  • Learn To Drive. Of course, you want that moment that you will drive next to your spouse, so learn how to drive!
  • Live Somewhere Else. To live alone or with your best friend, try this in a place that is very new to you. With this experience, you will appreciate life more and you will know yourself more. This is also the right time to make more time to God and deal with Him for more amazing things coming.
  • Make Something With Your Hands. Talking about tutorials, you can make something with your hands and treasure it for the rest of your life.
  • Read Books. Reading books will not just improve your intelligence but this will make you discover more about life. Read books because you deserve it. There are many things in life to discover. Enjoy reading!
  • Keep a Journal. One of the most important things to have is to keep a journal. You should have a daily devotion to God. God loves you and He wants you to know Him more.